I’m a humble single mother of 3 amazing kids. I have a son who is 23 and two daughters 20 and 15.
Please join me as I blog about my weight loss surgery journey (and my life afterwards). It was not an easy decicion to make to under go gastric-by-pass surgery. I had seriously thought about it for 3 years before I decided to seriously make this big decision. It wasn’t a decision to be taken lightly. (Note: On July 23rd of 2013 I had the surgery.)
Personally, I knew that this was my only chance to live a long and healthy life. (Read more below). I had laparoscopic Roux-en-Y Gastric By-pass Surgery on July 25th, 2013! This is my very personal journey addressing my weight issues, what I am going through, my struggles, my triumph and how I’m going to take charge of my life again and hopefully make the changes that need to be made. (And, now a year later… share my crazy life after a successful surgery and weight loss!)
Morbid obesity is difficult to talk about, (people can’t understand!!) and was difficult to live my life being a morbidly obese person (read my first post about how I hate being fat!). Obesity is not only a growing problem, but #1 KILLER within the USA.
More about me….
I’ve been a single mom for over 15 years and counting. Being a mom is such a wonderful and fulfilling experience. When I’m not with my kids, I enjoy playing on the internet with social media. (I do more now!) Overall, spending time with my children when they have time for me (ha ha)… it’s what I love most. But, I’ve learned since they are growing up… I need to develop my “own life and my own hobbies and mostly to learn to “like me”. Part of this is the reason why I need to get healthy!
Briefly, most of my life I had always been skinny (thin – under 127 lbs). I loved being thin. I loved everything that comes with thin!
However, sometime after having all 3 amazing children, went through a difficult a divorce, a crazy x-husband, financial crisis as a single mother, overcoming severe depression, family complications, life and whatever else… over the last 12-15 years of that journey, I began gaining weight – losing weight and gaining, gaining…
I got to my highest weight ever… 259 lbs on a small frame!
I’ve tried every diet that you could think of along the way… and, I could probably share some crazy diets with you! I’ve had Dr. supervised diets, Weight Watchers and, well… you name it. I would lose some weight and then… regain and regain more back!
When I finally decided to have Weight Loss Surgery, I didn’t want anyone to know. Maybe I was embarrassed, or didn’t want to face the uneducated criticism. (Read post here)
Then with the health complications that come along with being overweight, of which I truly almost lost my life (May 2013). I was in ICU (Intensive Care Unit) for 10 days!! Believe me…that experience truly confirmed that I absolutely, definitely without a doubt made the right decision! I’m was proud to be taking control of my life.
I hope you read, share and comment on my articles… Please subscribe to this blog… or even send me an e-mail to let me know your story. I believe we need to be a supportive force to each other!
Be Proud & Be Sexy,
Lynn 🙂
Xoxox
updated: 8/09/14
Lynn I wish you great success with this. I have a Brother In-Law who has the Gastric Band and with it he has been able to successfully manage his weight with it over the last ten years. I also have a Cousin who has gastric bypass a couple of years ago with great results, she now lives an active and Happy life. She has also devoted herself to helping others with weight problems.
Mike McAleer
Mike,
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate the support and it’s wonderful to hear how WLS has changed lives!
Thank you Mike! It’s great to hear about other people who (know people) who are suceeding with weight loss surgery. I feel that supporting each other on any decisions that we make regarding our weight (and health) are so important. Again, keep sharing!
Lynn